Tag: Avoidance

  • It’s Not That Big of a Deal—I’ll Just Let It Go

    It’s Not That Big of a Deal—I’ll Just Let It Go

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    joshuaebishop

    Here’s Something to Think About… Fallacy of the Week:“Bringing it up will just make things harder. I’ll get over it.” What’s Really Happening:We downplay what matters to avoid awkward moments. But silence isn’t neutral—it takes something from us over time. We might avoid one hard conversation, but we trade clarity,…

  • Avoidance Feels Kinder

    Avoidance Feels Kinder

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    joshuaebishop

    Here’s Something to Think About… Fallacy of the Week:“It’s better to say nothing than risk making things awkward.” What’s Really Happening:We tell ourselves we’re being polite, but more often, we’re just avoiding discomfort. Silence feels safe—but it can quietly grow resentment, confusion, or tension under the surface. A Better Way:Awkwardness…