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Avoidance Feels Kinder

Here’s Something to Think About…

Fallacy of the Week:
“It’s better to say nothing than risk making things awkward.”

What’s Really Happening:
We tell ourselves we’re being polite, but more often, we’re just avoiding discomfort. Silence feels safe—but it can quietly grow resentment, confusion, or tension under the surface.

A Better Way:
Awkwardness is actually your cue. When a conversation feels off or uncertain, it’s not a warning to back away—it’s a signal to lean in and start paying attention. You’re not doing damage by speaking up—you’re doing the hard, necessary work of connection.

“By embracing awkwardness as a friend, we get closer to clarity. Awkwardness is simply a sign that the usual communication pattern has been disrupted. Don’t run from it—run through it.”
Chapter 2: The Gift of Awkwardness

📘 Learn how to lean into discomfort and use it to grow as a communicator in Awkward Communication.
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Vol. 1, No. 2